There is a time and a place for SMART goals.
Like when we want or have to achieve something that’s specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and timely. (See what I did there?)
Put another way, sometimes we need to outline a goal like this: “I will publish my book in 2023, and have 1000 people download or purchase it within 6 months of publication.”
But there are times when SMART goals are precisely the wrong approach to take.
Sometimes we have to dream. And a good dream is probably the inverse of a SMART goal: A audacious, unorthodox, and slow to achieve.
Put another way, sometimes we need to put a dream out there, something like: “I dream about a day when America is a more trusting place, probably because our government is innovative and citizen centric, we have skilled leaders on every block, and our culture becomes one where everyone reflects on their own actions and is committed to developing their own character.”
Here’s what I’ve learned about both, as a real person, living a real life, trying to achieve goals and dreams for real:
First, dreams are a paradox. The most visionary dream feel too crazy to talk about - and so we often don’t talk about them. At the same time, the surest way to never achieve a dream is to keep it a secret. The only way our dreams become a reality is if we talk about them even when it feels awkward.
Second, it’s really important to know whether the situation at hand requires a goal or a dream. If the situation is well understood and we need to “get it done”…goals all day.
But if we’re trying to imagine a better future, and contemplate a new way of being, dreams are the only way.
Third, both goals and dreams are worthless if they are not specific. If the finish line is blurry, collective action grinds to a halt, especially when there’s no hierarchy to scare people into action.
Finally, and perhaps most importantly, both dreams and goals require an action which deviates from the status quo. That’s why we dream and set goals in the first place, we want something to be different.
A good question is: “Do my goals and dreams require me to act differently? If so, how? If not, how do I get better goals and dreams?”
That’s there’s the unlock.
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